This is an age old question: should you invite your Ex to your wedding? Whether you are the bride or the groom, you may have an Ex that you are considering inviting. Here are some guidelines and dos and don’ts.
Consider the relationship: are you still good friends? There is no reason to invite anyone to your wedding unless you are on good terms with them. If you are more than just civil with each other, there is no reason why you shouldn’t invite them. If your future spouse, however, has a problem, then it is up for discussion. It is both of your wedding, and no one should feel uncomfortable.
Do: be sure they are seated with people they know and like.
Don’t: dance with them or spend a lot of time talking with them. That can just be awkward for everyone, even if you are “just good friends”.
Do: allow them a plus one, to make the event more comfortable for them and you.
Don’t: introduce them to others as your “Ex”. If you have a more complicated relationship, such as being the father or mother of your children, introduce them as such. No need to be ashamed.